Okay this post is nothing but me letting out my frustrations but I’m very sure I’m not alone here. This is not about one person(although my recent experience with that one person who hurt me bad is the reason behind this post but oh well) but I have met the biggest babies as of late and all of them are over 30.
So here is the rundown on adult baby behavior:
- Hanging up the phone when you are frustrated
- Yelling to get your point across
- Having no self control and yelling again when they are called on it
- Yelling over the other person who is calm and trying to explain
- Not hearing anything you said opting to what they think you said
- Becoming silent when you are in a discussion because they have nothing good to say
- Going out all night and drinking till you black out.
All of that is a big tantrum and most of these same men consider themselves to be mature, respectful and compassionate. So you open the door for me, my mother and the stranger behind you, but you yell when I say no to something you want. I’m ridculous because I expect you to share with me when you will be late or unable to come by when you said you would. When I ask to talk about something I am having difficulties with, I’m all about drama but again you are yelling. When I share my bad day, you see it as complaining and not just wanting to let it out with my man rubbing my shoulders.
These adult look just like other adults. They are only recognizable once you devote time and effort to get to know them and then they have an episode. These episodes can look like Terrets or Bi-Polar disorder. Beware. They can seem wonderful but one episode turns into two and so on. They have amazing charisma and will pull you in before they show there second face(no they aren’t all Geminis, but those Geminis are crazy).
You must hold your ground with them. They continue their ways because we let them get away with it. They are a master of turning the situation around to make you look like the baby. Don’t let them get away with it.
Remember, only you can prevent the spread of Adult Babies.